๐ The Diary
Aug
4
4
Tuesday, August 4 โ Arrival Done
โ๏ธ Flew CLT โ HNL
Departed Charlotte 2:33 PM ยท Arrived Honolulu 10:09 PM
Checked into VRBO apartment (booked by Nat).
Checked into VRBO apartment (booked by Nat).
Aug
5
5
Wednesday, August 5 Done
๐ณ Full Day on Oahu
Started at Denny's, then hit the beach behind the Outrigger in Waikiki for a few hours. Swung through Goodwill Hawaii, then stopped at Makapu'u Lookout to watch paragliders soaring the coast.
On to Lanikai Beach for hours โ turquoise water, white sand, Mokulua Islands in the distance. Drove back over the Ko'olau Mountains and ended the night at Beastside Kitchen in East Honolulu. Loved it. (Yelp 4.5 โญ)
On to Lanikai Beach for hours โ turquoise water, white sand, Mokulua Islands in the distance. Drove back over the Ko'olau Mountains and ended the night at Beastside Kitchen in East Honolulu. Loved it. (Yelp 4.5 โญ)
Aug
6
6
Thursday, August 6 Done
๐ Island Drive ยท Reunion ยท Waimea Bay ยท Sean's
Brought Nat & Jennifer to the airport for their Kauai flight, then headed to Waimea Bay and Turtle Beach โ sand, waves, turtles.
The big surprise of the day: reunited with Tuul, George, Mooji (16), and Titus (7) โ friends we hadn't seen in 7 years since Vermont. Dalai and Titus hit it off instantly.
Evening at Sean, Tsogsoo & Adam's house. Dinner on the patio, that sunset, good conversation. Dalai played Minecraft for the first time with Adam. Travis smoked a cigar with Sean.
The big surprise of the day: reunited with Tuul, George, Mooji (16), and Titus (7) โ friends we hadn't seen in 7 years since Vermont. Dalai and Titus hit it off instantly.
Evening at Sean, Tsogsoo & Adam's house. Dinner on the patio, that sunset, good conversation. Dalai played Minecraft for the first time with Adam. Travis smoked a cigar with Sean.
Aug
7
7
Friday, August 7 Done
๐คฟ Lost Beach ยท Snorkeling ยท Dole Plantation
Started the day with a great morning work call with Jeff โ mountains visible in the background, one of those calls that just felt good. ๐๏ธ
Spent hours at Papa'iloa Beach on the North Shore โ the filming location for the TV show Lost. Travis taught Dalai how to snorkel for the first time. ๐คฟ
Stopped at a famous sugar mill in town โ ube smoothie and passion fruit shaved ice. Then incredible Hispanic food: tacos, quesadilla, and a massive burrito.
Headed to the Dole Plantation with Adam and rode the train through the pineapple fields. Back home, hiked to a dragonfruit tree.
Dalai got Minecraft downloaded on his Nintendo Switch. Ended the day eating outside and watching the sunset โ long conversation with Adam.
Spent hours at Papa'iloa Beach on the North Shore โ the filming location for the TV show Lost. Travis taught Dalai how to snorkel for the first time. ๐คฟ
Stopped at a famous sugar mill in town โ ube smoothie and passion fruit shaved ice. Then incredible Hispanic food: tacos, quesadilla, and a massive burrito.
Headed to the Dole Plantation with Adam and rode the train through the pineapple fields. Back home, hiked to a dragonfruit tree.
Dalai got Minecraft downloaded on his Nintendo Switch. Ended the day eating outside and watching the sunset โ long conversation with Adam.
Aug
8
8
Saturday, August 8 Done
โ Pearl Harbor ยท Aviation Museum ยท Mongolian Night
Travis caught up on work in the morning while the others headed to the farmers market.
Afternoon: Pearl Harbor and the Pearl Harbor Aviation Museum โ WWII planes, the USS Arizona exhibit, and the full weight of that place. Travis was moved by the original bullet holes still in the hangar windows โ left there intentionally, unrepaired, as a permanent reminder. Tunga became Rosie the Riveter at the museum photo booth. Dalai explored the ship models and exhibits with wonder.
Then over to a house on base โ hosted by Luckma, Nanda & Mina. Tuul, George, Mooji & Titus joined. Mongolian traditional food, good drinks, and six hours of the kind of catching-up that only happens with people who really know each other. Lots of laughter. The girls especially loved it.
Travis drove everyone home in the van at the end of the night. ๐
Afternoon: Pearl Harbor and the Pearl Harbor Aviation Museum โ WWII planes, the USS Arizona exhibit, and the full weight of that place. Travis was moved by the original bullet holes still in the hangar windows โ left there intentionally, unrepaired, as a permanent reminder. Tunga became Rosie the Riveter at the museum photo booth. Dalai explored the ship models and exhibits with wonder.
Then over to a house on base โ hosted by Luckma, Nanda & Mina. Tuul, George, Mooji & Titus joined. Mongolian traditional food, good drinks, and six hours of the kind of catching-up that only happens with people who really know each other. Lots of laughter. The girls especially loved it.
Travis drove everyone home in the van at the end of the night. ๐
Aug
9
9
Sunday, August 9 Done
๐ฏ Tiger Rescue ยท Airport Run ยท PARC Check-In
Morning with Sean, Tsogsoo & Adam. Wandered into the local town and hit the gift shops โ Travis picked up a brown Australian sun hat. ๐ค
Then a mission: drove all the way back to Honolulu to rescue Dalai's forgotten stuffed tiger. ๐ฏ Worth every mile.
Straight from there to the airport to pick up Nat & Jennifer, back from their Kauai detour. Full crew reunited.
Drove up to PARC โ Pililaau Army Recreation Center and checked into the beachside cabin. Right on the water, 40 minutes from Honolulu.
Dinner out with Sean, Adam & Tsogsoo โ Chinese food. Then sunset on the beach, a grocery run, and ended the night at the beach bar with Sunday sangrias. ๐น
Dalai napped on the drive up โ then absolutely ripped through the night with energy once he woke up.
Then a mission: drove all the way back to Honolulu to rescue Dalai's forgotten stuffed tiger. ๐ฏ Worth every mile.
Straight from there to the airport to pick up Nat & Jennifer, back from their Kauai detour. Full crew reunited.
Drove up to PARC โ Pililaau Army Recreation Center and checked into the beachside cabin. Right on the water, 40 minutes from Honolulu.
Dinner out with Sean, Adam & Tsogsoo โ Chinese food. Then sunset on the beach, a grocery run, and ended the night at the beach bar with Sunday sangrias. ๐น
Dalai napped on the drive up โ then absolutely ripped through the night with energy once he woke up.
Aug
10
10
Monday, August 10 Done
๐ Boogie Boards & Bedtime Stories
Started with a work call with Jeff โ then straight to the beach. Travis taught Dalai how to boogie board for the first time ๐ค He's 6. He did great.
Grocery runs (x2) to stock the cabin. Cooked and ate together at the beach house. Night turned into drinks with Sean โ a proper one. Late night with Tunga after, just the two of them.
Bedtime story for Dalai: Gus and Trav and the Mystery of the Golden Monkey Statue โ Travis made it up on the spot. Their first story together.
Grocery runs (x2) to stock the cabin. Cooked and ate together at the beach house. Night turned into drinks with Sean โ a proper one. Late night with Tunga after, just the two of them.
Bedtime story for Dalai: Gus and Trav and the Mystery of the Golden Monkey Statue โ Travis made it up on the spot. Their first story together.
Aug
11
11
Tuesday, August 11 Done
โฉ๏ธ Temples & Volleyball
Morning at the Byodo-In Temple โ the Japanese Buddhist temple in the Valley of the Temples, O'ahu. Walked the botanical gardens nearby.
Lunch at Zippy's, the beloved local Hawaiian diner chain. Scenic stop at Pali Overlook. Picked up Shmooshi bento boxes.
Ended the day at Sean's house โ played volleyball, met his family. Drove home.
Grandpa Nat told Dalai Jack Tales and Brer Rabbit and the Tar Baby at bedtime.
Lunch at Zippy's, the beloved local Hawaiian diner chain. Scenic stop at Pali Overlook. Picked up Shmooshi bento boxes.
Ended the day at Sean's house โ played volleyball, met his family. Drove home.
Grandpa Nat told Dalai Jack Tales and Brer Rabbit and the Tar Baby at bedtime.
Aug
12
12
Wednesday, August 12 Done
๐ Beach Day & Sunset on the Point
A full day at PARC โ beach, water, cabin life. No agenda, just being there.
In the evening, walked to the point beach on the northwest corner of the island to watch the sunset. One of those moments that earns itself.
Travis had a long call with Eli. Later, a FaceTime with Eliza and Victoria โ showed them Hawaii through the screen.
In the evening, walked to the point beach on the northwest corner of the island to watch the sunset. One of those moments that earns itself.
Travis had a long call with Eli. Later, a FaceTime with Eliza and Victoria โ showed them Hawaii through the screen.
Aug
13
13
Thursday, August 13 Done
๐ Blowhole ยท Keiki Kingdom ยท Dave & Buster's ยท Hale Koa
Drove to the Blowhole Overlook on the east side of the island โ one of those stops that just delivers.
Met up with Luckma and her daughter Amira. Took the kids to Keiki Kingdom โ Dalai and Amira played together for hours.
Over to Ala Moana for shopping. Then Dave & Buster's โ the whole group played together for hours. On the way out, they had an unused play card left and found some kids to give it to. Someone else walked up right then and handed them five stuffed animals they'd won โ wanted to pass them on. The kids were thrilled. Felt like immediate karma. ๐งธ
Dinner at Hale Koa โ the military hotel in Waikiki. Nice night.
Met up with Luckma and her daughter Amira. Took the kids to Keiki Kingdom โ Dalai and Amira played together for hours.
Over to Ala Moana for shopping. Then Dave & Buster's โ the whole group played together for hours. On the way out, they had an unused play card left and found some kids to give it to. Someone else walked up right then and handed them five stuffed animals they'd won โ wanted to pass them on. The kids were thrilled. Felt like immediate karma. ๐งธ
Dinner at Hale Koa โ the military hotel in Waikiki. Nice night.
Aug
14
14
Friday, August 14 Done
๐พ Kahuku Farms ยท Polynesian Cultural Center ยท Ha: Breath of Life
Checked out of PARC in the morning โ 5 nights on the beach, done right.
First stop: Kahuku Farms on the North Shore โ Sean's recommendation. Fresh smoothies, played soccer in the fields. The kind of place you only find if someone local knows about it. ๐ฟ
Then a full day at the Polynesian Cultural Center with Sean and Adam โ walked every village, watched the demonstrations, took it all in. Stayed the entire day.
Evening: the dinner buffet, then the Ha: Breath of Life nighttime show. One of the most celebrated Polynesian performances in Hawaii โ fire, dance, the full story of a young man's journey to manhood. Incredible way to end the last full night out. ๐ฅ
Stayed at Sean's.
First stop: Kahuku Farms on the North Shore โ Sean's recommendation. Fresh smoothies, played soccer in the fields. The kind of place you only find if someone local knows about it. ๐ฟ
Then a full day at the Polynesian Cultural Center with Sean and Adam โ walked every village, watched the demonstrations, took it all in. Stayed the entire day.
Evening: the dinner buffet, then the Ha: Breath of Life nighttime show. One of the most celebrated Polynesian performances in Hawaii โ fire, dance, the full story of a young man's journey to manhood. Incredible way to end the last full night out. ๐ฅ
Stayed at Sean's.
Aug
15
15
Saturday, August 15 Done
๐ด Ukulele ยท Outlets ยท Corn Dogs ยท Tropical Storm
Nat and Jennifer headed out on their own โ hiking at the point, then Waimea Valley, then the Dole Plantation. Good send-off adventure for the two of them.
The rest of the day was about people. Sean, Adam, and family โ just hanging out, the easy kind. Tunga got ukulele lessons ๐ต โ sitting in the living room, learning from Adam, both of them playing.
Out to the outlets with Luckma and Amira. Dalai and Amira got corn dogs at Mr. COW. Picked up notebooks and pens. The rain was already starting โ everyone walking out of Kate Spade with one umbrella between them.
That night: the tropical storm arrived. ๐ง๏ธ
The rest of the day was about people. Sean, Adam, and family โ just hanging out, the easy kind. Tunga got ukulele lessons ๐ต โ sitting in the living room, learning from Adam, both of them playing.
Out to the outlets with Luckma and Amira. Dalai and Amira got corn dogs at Mr. COW. Picked up notebooks and pens. The rain was already starting โ everyone walking out of Kate Spade with one umbrella between them.
That night: the tropical storm arrived. ๐ง๏ธ
Aug
16โ17
16โ17
Sunday, August 16 โ Departure Done
๐ง๏ธ Tropical Storm ยท Luckma's ยท Fly Home
Rain and wind all night and into the morning. The tropical storm hit hard โ power knocked out at Sean's for the day, maybe longer. Time to move.
Left early and drove to Luckma's house to wait it out near the airport. Made a stop at the baby exchange, then settled in and spent time with her family. Good unhurried afternoon despite the weather outside.
The standout of the day: a long conversation with Dad โ one Travis genuinely enjoyed. They talked about YourAI and what Travis could learn from how Norton built his education and security work in the early days of personal computing โ the playbook for establishing trust and authority in a brand-new category.
Departed Honolulu 10:30 PM ยท Phoenix layover ยท Arrived Charlotte 3:47 PM Mon, Aug 17
13 days. Mahalo, Hawaii. ๐บ
Left early and drove to Luckma's house to wait it out near the airport. Made a stop at the baby exchange, then settled in and spent time with her family. Good unhurried afternoon despite the weather outside.
The standout of the day: a long conversation with Dad โ one Travis genuinely enjoyed. They talked about YourAI and what Travis could learn from how Norton built his education and security work in the early days of personal computing โ the playbook for establishing trust and authority in a brand-new category.
Departed Honolulu 10:30 PM ยท Phoenix layover ยท Arrived Charlotte 3:47 PM Mon, Aug 17
13 days. Mahalo, Hawaii. ๐บ
Nat & Jennifer's Kauai Side Trip: They fly from Honolulu to Kauai on Aug 6 and return Aug 9, joining everyone at PARC. They connect with Luckma's family on Kauai during this time.
๐ธ Trip Photos
๐ฑ Open Shared Album โ
View & add photos from anyone on the trip
๐๏ธ Aug 5 โ Waikiki ยท Lanikai ยท Beastside Kitchen
Dalai at the beach ๐
Nat in beach mode ๐ช
Sunscreen moment โ๏ธ
Beach life ๐บ
Beastside Kitchen ๐ฝ๏ธ
๐ Aug 6 โ Island Drive ยท Waimea Bay ยท Sean's
Tunga at Lanikai ๐
Dinner at Sean's ๐
Dalai & Titus at sunset โฝ
That golden sky ๐
On fire ๐ฅ
โ Aug 8 โ Pearl Harbor Aviation Museum
Still there. Unrepaired. ๐
Hangar 37 ยท WWII planes โ๏ธ
Tunga: We Can Do It! ๐ช
Dalai at the USS Arizona โ
December 7th attack map ๐บ๏ธ
Dalai inspecting the fleet ๐ข
The attack, as it happened ๐จ
Ford Island control tower ๐๏ธ
๐น๏ธ Aug 13 โ Dave & Buster's ยท Ala Moana
Dalai at ring toss ๐ฏ
Fast & Furious ๐
Dalai & Amira on Super Bikes ๐๏ธ
Racing side by side ๐
Everybody in ๐ฎ
๐บ Aug 14 โ Kahuku Farms ยท PCC ยท Ha: Breath of Life
Ha: Breath of Life ๐ฅ
The whole crew at PCC ๐บ
๐ง๏ธ Aug 15 โ Ukulele ยท Outlets ยท Corn Dogs
Tunga learns ukulele ๐ต
Corn dogs at Mr. COW ๐ฝ
Storm's coming ๐ง๏ธ
๐ท
Trip complete
Full shared album โ photos from everyone on the trip.
โ
What We Did
The trip shaped itself. Here's what made the cut โ and what's saved for next time.
๐ฅพ Hikes & Nature
๐
Diamond Head Crater Trail
Next time โ
Oahu's most iconic hike. Saved for the next trip.
๐
Makapu'u Lookout
โ
Aug 5
Stopped here on Day 2 to watch paragliders soaring the coast. Sweeping views over the east shore.
๐ช
Lanikai Pillbox Trail
Next time โ
Views over Kailua and the Mokulua Islands. On the list for the next trip.
๐บ
Waimea Valley
โ
Aug 15 ยท Nat & Jen
Nat and Jennifer made it here on the last full day โ botanical gardens, waterfall, the whole thing.
๐ฟ
Manoa Falls Trail
Next time โ
Rainforest trail just above Honolulu. A good rainy-day option for next time.
๐ฆญ
Ka'ena Point
Next time โ
Monk seals and albatross at the island's wild northwest tip. A long one โ next trip.
๐ The Luau
๐ฅ
Ha: Breath of Life ยท PCC
โ
Aug 14 ยท What we chose
The nighttime show at the Polynesian Cultural Center โ after a full day walking every village with Sean and Adam. Fire, dance, the full coming-of-age story. Incredible way to close out the last big night.
๐
Paradise Cove ยท Nutridge ยท Mauka Warriors
Next time โ
Three solid options that didn't get chosen. Any of them would've been great. Saved.
๐ Water & More
๐ข
Laniakea Beach ยท Turtle Beach
โ
Aug 6
Green sea turtles on the sand. Dalai got close enough to make it a memory.
๐คฟ
Snorkeling ยท Papa'iloa Beach
โ
Aug 7
Travis taught Dalai to snorkel for the first time at the Lost filming beach on the North Shore.
๐
North Shore + Shave Ice
โ
Aug 7
Drove the North Shore. Ube smoothie + passion fruit shaved ice at a local sugar mill. Sean's pick.
๐
Boogie Boarding ยท PARC
โ
Aug 10
Travis taught Dalai to boogie board for the first time. He's 6. He did great. ๐ค
๐คฟ
Hanauma Bay Snorkeling
Next time โ
Marine preserve near Waikiki. Reserve well ahead โ next trip.
๐
Surf Lesson in Waikiki
Next time โ
Waikiki's gentle breaks are perfect for first-timers. Tunga and Dalai would be naturals.
๐ Logistics
๐ First 2 Nights โ VRBO
Booked by Nat. All 5 travelers. Aug 4โ6.
๐ก Nights 3โ5 โ Sean's Place
Travis, Tunga & Dalai stay with Sean on Oahu while Nat & Jen are in Kauai.
โญ Nights 6โ10 โ PARC Cabins
Two 2-bedroom cabins, Aug 9โ14. Sean helped book through the Army Recreation Center.
๐ Van Rental
Nat books the van. He hands it off when he leaves for Kauai on Aug 6.
๐ Turo โ Alternative Car Option
Sean recommends Turo over traditional rental car companies. Good option to keep in mind.
๐ฅ The Crew
Travis & Tunga
Full trip ยท Aug 4โ17
Dalai
Age 6 ยท Full trip ยท Adventure buddy
Nat (Dad)
Full trip ยท Kauai detour Aug 6โ9
Jennifer
Full trip ยท Kauai with Nat Aug 6โ9
Sean
Local friend ยท Host Aug 4โ9
Luckma Sanjaa
Local friend ยท Honolulu
โ๏ธ Flights
Charlotte โ Honolulu
Conf: EAZPKM
AA 1502
American Airlines
4h 57m ยท Economy
2:33 PM
Tue, Aug 4
Charlotte, NC (CLT)
Charlotte-Douglas Intl.
Charlotte-Douglas Intl.
4:30 PM
Tue, Aug 4
Los Angeles, CA (LAX)
Los Angeles Intl.
Los Angeles Intl.
โฑ Layover: 2h 55m in Los Angeles
AA 1313
American Airlines
5h 44m ยท Economy
7:25 PM
Tue, Aug 4
Los Angeles, CA (LAX)
Los Angeles Intl.
Los Angeles Intl.
10:09 PM
Tue, Aug 4
Honolulu, HI (HNL)
Daniel K. Inouye Intl.
Daniel K. Inouye Intl.
Honolulu โ Charlotte
Conf: EAZPKM
AA 694
American Airlines
5h 45m ยท Economy
10:30 PM
Sun, Aug 16
Honolulu, HI (HNL)
Daniel K. Inouye Intl.
Daniel K. Inouye Intl.
7:15 AM +1
Mon, Aug 17
Phoenix, AZ (PHX)
Sky Harbor Intl.
Sky Harbor Intl.
โฑ Layover: 1h 17m in Phoenix
AA 1688
American Airlines
4h 15m ยท Economy
8:32 AM
Mon, Aug 17
Phoenix, AZ (PHX)
Sky Harbor Intl.
Sky Harbor Intl.
3:47 PM
Mon, Aug 17
Charlotte, NC (CLT)
Charlotte-Douglas Intl.
Charlotte-Douglas Intl.
Ticketed Travelers
Nathaniel Hellstrom
Jennifer Petrykowski
Travis Hellstrom
Ariuntungalag Jargalsaikhan (Tunga)
Dalai Hellstrom